Eyes Wide Open Adoption

Embracing the Joys and Heartaches of Adoption: A Mother's Story

Eyes Wide Open Adoption

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  • September 2021
  • June 2021
  • November 2020
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  • September 2020
  • August 2020
  • July 2020
  • April 2020
  • A Portrait of the (Not So) Typical American Family

    “Pam’s Fight Crew”

    So ready for this! Naomi and I will be participating in the 2021 Komen Los Angeles County MORE THAN PINK Walk in honor of her birth mom/my sister-from-another-mister, Pam.

  • Uncategorized

    America’s National Parks: A Look Back

    When we set this goal seven years ago, we could not imagine life beyond that moment. Our four children were young (ages 4-11) and we were just catching our breath.

  • Adoption Awareness

    Preconceived Notions

    Adoptive Mom. One minute placed on a pedestal too high for my liking, and the next in a mad free-fall, splat on the ground. A hero or villain, neither of which reflect who I truly am.

  • Adoption Awareness

    It’s Not What You Think

    Adoption. It’s not about giving a child a home, a hand-up. It’s not about helping a woman survive an untimely pregnancy and birth. It’s about growing up, and realizing we were never meant to be their savior.

  • Mental Health

    Unchain the Mind: ADHD

    Mental disability takes many forms. It is the most misunderstood, societally shunned ailment. 50% of children with a mental health condition go untreated. I have been here, lived that.

  • Mental Health

    Going Out a Gladiator

    I grew up in poverty. My childhood was filled with loss and uncertainty. At 11 years old I decided that, as far as it depended on me, that would change. Everything I had, I gave. But despite my best effort,…

  • Mental Health

    Going Through the Rubble

    Details of the story she told the night before materialize, and I lose my breath. With shaky hands I gather them together like puzzle pieces, desperate for answers. Renée Longshore Tweet With confusion and sorrow, I wonder. Will these become…

  • A Portrait of the (Not So) Typical American Family

    Chapter 29

    It was a girl date like any other. Pam was now happily married and some more time had passed since we last got together. I cannot remember who initiated it, but I recall how it progressed. We were going to…

  • A Portrait of the (Not So) Typical American Family

    Chapter 28

    It was a beautiful day in the later afternoon. The ceremony was held at a location filled with flowers in bloom, tucked in a plethora of trees. Pam was beautiful, Cassandra was poised, and Art was one lucky man! The…

  • A Portrait of the (Not So) Typical American Family

    Chapter 27

    In this security, our relationship evolved. I mourned with her as she was rejected after job interviews, and rejoiced in the hope of each new possibility. I wanted to fix everything for her and help her onto the easy road…

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  • Court Dependent (San Bernardino County)
  • Relinquishment (San Bernardino County)
  • Nightlight Christian Adoptions